tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5342989442322137175.post7116718008348069976..comments2023-10-01T02:49:46.687-07:00Comments on She's Come Undone...: Remembering Himmargarethttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16494588299838654564noreply@blogger.comBlogger13125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5342989442322137175.post-79995397700362790112010-05-22T14:02:57.973-07:002010-05-22T14:02:57.973-07:00It is so hard sometimes to not feel guilty...it se...It is so hard sometimes to not feel guilty...it seems like there are always 100 reasons to do so. I am glad, though, that you are letting your spark grow. No matter what that spark grows into, the rest of us here know that you will never allow that spark to overtake your memories of Calvin. No spark, no matter how big or bright it gets, can ever change his importance and significance in your life.Susanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14814373587860281157noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5342989442322137175.post-686131095560357472010-05-19T16:09:56.556-07:002010-05-19T16:09:56.556-07:00Happy belated Mother's Day..Happy belated Mother's Day..Hollyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15431384515813384025noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5342989442322137175.post-72155289455884160392010-05-19T06:45:36.735-07:002010-05-19T06:45:36.735-07:00Remembering Calvin with you and sending you love. ...Remembering Calvin with you and sending you love. Wish we could change our realities and have our boys with us. xoKarenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01771397595613026711noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5342989442322137175.post-3618788374252815292010-05-16T21:18:36.256-07:002010-05-16T21:18:36.256-07:00Happy belated Mother's Day to you. I know it w...Happy belated Mother's Day to you. I know it was a hard day, but I hope you were able to find some kind of peace in knowing that you are a Mom and Calvin is lucky to have such a wonderful Mommy! :) I feel guilty about not going to the cemetary more often too. XOMaggiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13339073098081631983noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5342989442322137175.post-8753344899563220192010-05-11T11:21:16.270-07:002010-05-11T11:21:16.270-07:00I am so very glad that you are on the other side o...I am so very glad that you are on the other side of the drugs. You will always have us here when you need. <br /><br />I also fear the forgetting part. But they live on in our hearts.Maryhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16071927168876473000noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5342989442322137175.post-11992777026956484172010-05-10T14:57:05.336-07:002010-05-10T14:57:05.336-07:00'I've come to realize that this time with ...'I've come to realize that this time with my daughters I will never get back.'<br /><br />Me too. It's difficult to balance, that tension between our children. To remember enough. To forget enough.<br /><br />Personally, I don't think that you will ever lose Calvin, even if you feel that the sadness and the longing are receding. Your love for him is too strong for that. xoCatherine Whttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01618295389400457254noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5342989442322137175.post-88008489992731924542010-05-09T21:07:42.538-07:002010-05-09T21:07:42.538-07:00Thanks for the message I appreciate it. Thinking o...Thanks for the message I appreciate it. Thinking of you this Mothers Day, and thinking of your gorgeous little boy. I am sure he is proud of you! I hope your day was peaceful and relaxing.Melissahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03960284624015467516noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5342989442322137175.post-25909496297121381152010-05-09T18:40:37.370-07:002010-05-09T18:40:37.370-07:00the guilt is natural, but unnecessary. i hope that...the guilt is natural, but unnecessary. i hope that in time, by acknowledging it, you can begin to let go of the guilt. life is too short to feel guilty about things we don't have any control over and can't change.<br /><br />thinking of you and your family, especially calvin.Bethhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12523875341438470968noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5342989442322137175.post-34037931844729289122010-05-09T12:25:04.738-07:002010-05-09T12:25:04.738-07:00Remembering him with you.
xoxoRemembering him with you.<br />xoxoChristyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01498901545149667223noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5342989442322137175.post-68730064021485107532010-05-09T10:13:04.975-07:002010-05-09T10:13:04.975-07:00Happy mothers day, Margaret. I am sorry things hav...Happy mothers day, Margaret. I am sorry things have been so hard for you lately. You will come out of this cloud. You are happy, deep down. You might not always see it, it might not always be right in front of you, its there. Embrace the good days, and deal with the bad days. The good days will become more frequent, they really will. Cry when you need to, get it out. And laugh when you need to, its good for you too. You are an amazing momma! *hugs*Kristyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15134970929000997104noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5342989442322137175.post-26722561336056345822010-05-09T08:47:24.614-07:002010-05-09T08:47:24.614-07:00Happy Mother's Day! I know this is a hard day ...Happy Mother's Day! I know this is a hard day for us, but I hope you are able to find some peace in the fact that you are so loved and are a wonderful mom. xoxoJillhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15349971620040597427noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5342989442322137175.post-9609332273760984142010-05-09T08:41:56.652-07:002010-05-09T08:41:56.652-07:00Happy Mothers Day, Margaret. I believe Calvin is s...Happy Mothers Day, Margaret. I believe Calvin is so proud of you for all the steps you have taken and continue to take. I understand the feelings of guilt, of thinking that the pain is the proof of my connection to my babies. But I honestly think that our babies would want us to find joy again, to find meaning in our life again. I don't want them to think that, because they had to leave me, they ruined me. That is something I cannot take. I'm wishing you a gentle Mothers Day today, filled with sweetness from your girls and the memory of your Calvin.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5342989442322137175.post-91905575797508926942010-05-09T07:08:54.793-07:002010-05-09T07:08:54.793-07:00Happy Mothers Day to you.. a very heartfelt one.....Happy Mothers Day to you.. a very heartfelt one... one that is bitter and sweet .. kind to your heart.. love from one hurting mother to another..PB&Jhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07093940007854569921noreply@blogger.com